Tag: love
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Why Faithful People Cheat: The Quiet Cracks That Break Relationships—and How to Heal Them
Why Do Couples Cheat? Infidelity is rarely about sex alone. If it were, cheating would be easy to explain—and even easier to prevent. But reality is far more uncomfortable. People cheat not because they are bad, but because something within the relationship—or within themselves—has gone unheard for a long time. Most couples don’t wake up…
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Which Gender Finds It Harder to Stay Married?Exploring the emotional, cultural, and psychological dynamics behind marital endurance
Marriage is one of the most meaningful yet complex relationships people enter into. While both men and women face challenges in marriage, statistics and psychological studies suggest that women, more often than men, find it harder to stay married—but not for the reasons many might assume. Rather than commitment issues, the primary reasons lie in…
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What Couples Realise Too Late: Regrets That Surface After Divorce
Divorce is often seen as the final solution when a marriage feels too heavy to carry. But once the emotional storm settles, many couples discover that separation brings a different kind of weight — one filled with reflections, “what ifs,” and unspoken regrets.Understanding these regrets doesn’t mean divorce is always wrong. It simply highlights the…
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Why Being Right Feels More Important Than Being Close — And How It Costs Us Our Relationships
In relationships — whether romantic, familial, professional, or social — we often find ourselves in arguments that escalate not because the issue is critical, but because one or both people insist on being right. Why do we fight so hard to prove a point, even when it hurts the people we care about? Why do…
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Boundaries: The secret ingredient to lasting love
When most people think of a healthy relationship, they picture love, trust, and intimacy. But there’s one ingredient often overlooked: boundaries. Far from being walls that keep people apart, boundaries are bridges that connect two people with respect, clarity, and balance. Without them, love can feel suffocating. With them, love becomes sustainable. 1. Why Boundaries…
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Why Hatred Is Easy and Forgiveness Is Hard
Have you ever noticed how quickly anger flares when someone hurts you? How fast your heart shuts down and your mind fills with reasons to stay mad, stay distant, stay guarded? Hatred is effortless—it rushes in like a storm. Forgiveness, though? That takes work. Real, emotional, gut-deep work.So why is hatred easy, and forgiveness hard?…
Dr. Alfred D'Silva 