Creating Happy Families
The family is the most important and integral unit of society. The happiness levels of society are the sum of the happiness experienced by each unit of society. When individual members of a family can live in peace and harmony, find joy and happiness in the interactions with each other, feel loved and love one another, sharing and caring becomes the nature of each individual in the family. Thereby creating a happy family and eventually leading to the creation of a happy society.
A functional family is critically important to the emotional, mental and physical development of an individual.
A dysfunctional family is one of the main reasons for suffering and depression. It is the breeding ground for many emotional, mental and physical problems as well as autoimmune diseases. Members of a dysfunctional family experience anxiety and insecurity. Dysfunctional family causes suffering and emotional trauma in life. The happy moments are diminished, the difficulties and challenges are magnified by the indifferent and selfish nature of the family. Each family member feels, lonely, anxious, misunderstood, unsupported, disrespected, dishonored, restricted and is damaged by the interactions with each other. There is no peace and satisfaction in the company of family members. It is very disturbing and unsettling.
The family interactions are undignified and hurtful. Each member does not have a voice to fully express himself without the backlash of being judged and condemned. Conflicts and disagreements are brought to the centerstage, and these become the only reason to communicate in an unhealthy and destructive way. Pride, fear and ego dominate the interactions. Each member justifies his actions by the misconduct of the other members and bask in their own self-righteousness. Family interactions provide an opportunity to blame and condemn each other. There is no desire for understanding and learning new and better ways to communicate. Maladaptive behaviors are learnt and passed down to children and grandchildren, thereby creating generations of dysfunctional families. Unfulfilled expectations, selfishness and hurt dominates the mental makeup of each individual in the family.
There are many reasons why a family becomes dysfunctional. Modern ways of life and the introduction of mobile phones and social media have only compounded the problems and challenges that families face. Too many distractions to take a person away from family and too less interaction with members. Diminished attachment with family results in family members slowly drifting away from each other. Have you ever experienced this?
Dysfunctional families experience Conflict, Abandonment, Abuse and Neglect. The members of a dysfunctional family are prone to Mental disorders and Addiction.
What does our program do?
Family empowerment program is designed to help families become functional again. Helps them regain lost time. Lays down the framework for developing the skills and insights needed for a family to operate in a functional manner. Restoring relationships and developing healthy conflict resolution framework. Creating the family as the reservoir for happiness, joy, peace, fulfillment and energy. To develop a meaning and purpose to live a fulfilled life.
Resolve dysfunctional families
Many families have seen and witnessed a transformation in their children and spouses, restored their relationships and enhanced the quality of their relationships through the Family Empowerment Program. They have found joy, peace, fulfillment, purpose and meaning in living.
There are broadly 6 types of dysfunctional families:
Chaotic, Pathological, conflict driven, emotionally neglectful, abusive and overprotective families
Make families functional
All types of families can become functional no matter what. No matter how bad or traumatic the past was, there is always hope. Family Empowerment Program (FEP) restores and rebuilds families with the framework of the well-structured program. It teaches and guides the family members to create happy, fulfilling and functional families.
Never shy from asking for help
When you face an issue ask for help. you are not the only one having problems. Everyone faces problems. Don’t need to be embarrassed about it. Ask for help from the people who can help you. Talk to your parents. elders, friends, relatives. or you can talk to us.
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Dr. Alfred D'Silva 