The past mistakes and failures make us lose confidence in ourselves. The situations that we have no control or power over. The feeling of powerlessness in those situations. The past injustices and tribulations we undergo for no fault of ours. We need to forgive our past.
The people who have criticized us and ridiculed us have played havoc with our faith in ourselves. We need to forgive them.
If your insecurities are the result of a relative or authority figure criticizing you, you need to recognize it.
Accept the situations that happened in your life. Think deeply and tell yourself. Life is not happening to me it’s happening for me. It’s constantly shaping me to be the person I am supposed to be. The better and superior version of myself.
When the feeling of fear and insecurity creep into your consciousness. Pause for a moment. Examine the feeling. Evaluate the origin of the feeling, where in the past experiences is it coming from. Make peace and forgiveness to that incident. Let it go. Say to yourself. I am FREE. It set my self free from the feeling of that incident. I forgive my self and all involved.
I am in control of how I feel about any situation. The circumstances ar not in control of my feelings. I am.
The famous German psychiatrist Victor Frankel demonstrated in his life’s experience in the Nazi camps. That he had the power to choose how he felt no matter how much his tormentors tormented him he was in control of his inner peace.
Practice the power of self regulation of your emotions.
Don’t let external circumstances or people determine who or what you are. You and only you have the power to determine your self worth.
The most potent poision and destroyer of self worth is comparison. You are unique and there is no other person like you on the face of the planet. You are the best version of yourself. Love yourself. Accept yourself for who you are. Accept yourself with all your weakness, you have many unexplored potential that you are not aware of at this moment.
You are the best version of yourself. Acknowledging this increases self-esteem and self worth.
Even though life is full of ups and downs. There is always a supreme power that loves, preserves, nourishes, guides and cares for us. No matter how good or bad we are, we are always loved. You may call it God or a guiding power, he is always looking over you and taking care of you. Aligning things and situations in your life to help create a better version of you and make you successful. The past has taught you and shaped you to be stronger and resilient.
This understanding will help you to have confidence in yourself in every situation and face each moment of life with faith that you will always overcome and be victorious.
Homeopathy combined with counseling has proven time and again to be extremely effective in improving confidence and treating insecurity and improving confidence and self worth.
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